As a long time German car lover I hertily agree .
Here in Los Angeles (land of fruits , nuts & flakes) there was a man who bought a brandy new Porsche 356 Coupe and never changed the oil ~ he had a Diatamacious Earth filter in it and he changed that but never once changed the actual oil , he'd just top it up from time to time , he was the talk of all the local Dealer mechanics for years & years and when he finally traded it in for a new Porsche (912 IIRC) , he insisted they transfer the old oil from his 356 into his new one....

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Weird but true .
Super fine oil filters are not liked by many manufacturers because they remove the oil's important additives .
Silicon DOT-5 brake fluid is good in _some_ applications ~ in cold weather cars it collacts water and freezes blocking the brake pipes or it can cause severe rusting from the inside out , again only in one tiny little spot .
I've had it in my 1960 VW # 117 SDeLuxe Sliding Roof Sedan for over 10 years and never any problems .
IMO , the high failure rate is due to lazy ' mechanics ' not doing the work correctly ~ we used it for several years in the L.A.P.D. Fleet before lazy mechanics screwed it all up .
# 3 : you can't wiln a battle of wits with an un - armed opponent , that inspector is an idiot , I can't help you there .
From where I sit , you and I are both on the same page and I think you're aware I drive my old Mercedes W-123 diesel Coupe as a rally car , I don't think it unsafe , others have a differing opinion of that .
I still won't ever use copper brake likes .